Friday, March 5, 2010

Opinions

Most people have opinions on almost every subject we can think of and are prepared to tell anyone who asks what they are. Nothing wrong with this unless someone is looking for help on making an important decision or change in their life. What that person is really looking for is an informed opinion otherwise known as experience.
So how can we discover whether or not we are getting an informed opinion?
By using the skill of asking better questions. Instead of asking a person what they think about something we would ask do they have any experience with whatever we are interested in. In essence; does their resume have the skills to answer our need.
Your thoughts?

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In every discussion every person believes that it is him, only him and exactly him is solely the only one, who is right. And his oponent thinks just the same. In most cases people just cannot open their shells to the view from the outside.

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Getting wrong opinion from some one is due to that you are asking in the wrong way. well funny think i like about opinion is that if you gona ask 1 think from 5 people, all will give you different opinion :)

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I agree with you on that, because it will be nice to ask someone who had first hand experience on that problem that you are facing. Meaning they are most likely have been in the same situation as you are right now and you can have an overview on the decision that person took.

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Getting incorrect attitude from some one is due to that you are inquiring in the incorrect way. well comical believe i like about attitude is that if you gona inquire 1 believe from five persons,

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Critical thinking is near absent in today's society - after all, dissension, the greatest form of patriotism, is being frowned upon.

Definitely, at times, questions are not answerable based on the context, but sometimes it is the person asked to give an answer that is incapable of doing so. As I mentioned with critical thinking, reality itself is a relapsing entity, resurfacing with fantasized evaluations and expectations. Sometimes, some questions don't need to be asked. Sometimes, some questions already have an answer, but that answer doesn't suffice the truth-seeker's desire. Sometimes, some questions just don't make sense. In my personal experience though, in most cases, the more elaborate and expanded an inquiry is, the more broad the answer will be - but adding specifications and preferably, facts and proper information, can lead to a more defined answer. So, the form of how a question is asked will lead way to what form the answer is given.

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I love the fact that people have opinions that may differ from mine. What I like the most is when people aren't afraid to tell me theres as opposed to telling me what they think I might want to hear.

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Sometimes experience can jade a person and the advice they offer may be one-sided or very biased. My personal choice is to get advice both from folks who have had a similar experience and also from others who may have a completely different perspective by not having experienced the situation at all. I just find it helps to get both sides of the experience scale. Of course, it's usually the "experienced" person who has the best advice but I have used advice from inexperienced people that made more sense.

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Its true when you say that everyone has opinions, this is how unique we all are as individuals, we all have different minds, different thinking patterns, this is why its always hard to agree to some opinions, and people make their own opinions, this how people learn,, everyone learns from each other, from different opinions, you get answers to more than one thing, if everyone was to think positive and give great opinions the world really would be a better place...great post!

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Opinions are often based on personal experiences. If you try to probe anyone too much, they may not co-operate at all. I think the better way is to gather opinions from an diffrent sources and persons.

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There are two points here:

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2. The quality of the advice it selves

I would say that there are the cases when these two are not in proportional connection. So we can get a good advice form person who is not so good in the concrete topic, but just have a luck!

So the question is: Do we care for the person and him/ her qualities, or we care more about the result of the advice we'll have?

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I agree. Often we don't ask the right questions when asking for others' opinions.

However, I would argue that in our state of uncertainty, sometimes we don't know the right questions to ask.

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It is better to ask people their experience on a particular subject we are interested in, rather than asking for their opinion so you will not get a misleading opinion and end up in regrets. No wonder they say experience is the best teacher.

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