tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post5837913805731068872..comments2023-08-29T03:31:53.228-05:00Comments on Necessary Skills: Do We Really UnderstandPeter Haslamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-64733694672444006742007-06-19T16:50:00.000-05:002007-06-19T16:50:00.000-05:00Yes that would be true in the right circumstance M...Yes that would be true in the right circumstance Mimi thanks for your additionPeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-46224287106558657442007-06-19T16:49:00.000-05:002007-06-19T16:49:00.000-05:00Yes Bee i can see how that can happen I like your ...Yes Bee i can see how that can happen I like your approachPeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-11937671738511058822007-06-19T15:45:00.000-05:002007-06-19T15:45:00.000-05:00We do see through the filter of our own experience...We do see through the filter of our own experiences but that can be powerful comfort for someone who needs an understanding ear.Mimi Lenoxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01616635898420835541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-59148421165588279862007-06-19T14:54:00.000-05:002007-06-19T14:54:00.000-05:00i had a friend that lost a child. as people came t...i had a friend that lost a child. as people came through the line to offer her condolences so many would say to her "i know exactly how you feel". this upset her so much, she knew they meant well, but unless they lost a child, how could they possibly know? i always remembered that and tried to only say things that were true, like i am so sorry for your loss.<BR/><BR/>smiles, beeEmpress Bee (of the high sea)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08300140506585000934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-62938800007305217292007-06-18T21:23:00.000-05:002007-06-18T21:23:00.000-05:00Yes Sandee they seem similar but not exact and we ...Yes Sandee they seem similar but not exact and we can make errors of degree and get surprised by the intensity some one else gives to the same criteriaPeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-48244704901729314942007-06-18T20:54:00.000-05:002007-06-18T20:54:00.000-05:00I think you can somewhat. Varying degrees of cour...I think you can somewhat. Varying degrees of course, but somewhat. There are so many dynamics to each incident that it makes them unique but there has to be some that run along the same lines. Am I making sense here? <BR/><BR/>I am brain dead tonight and can't think this any further. Back to jury duty tomorrow...Sigh.Sandeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06785788498697004273noreply@blogger.com