tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post1363189386204104517..comments2023-08-29T03:31:53.228-05:00Comments on Necessary Skills: Relationship DisputesPeter Haslamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-67329679017874642852012-05-09T14:54:22.307-05:002012-05-09T14:54:22.307-05:00Thank you entirely much exchange for the help foru...Thank you entirely much exchange for the help forum. I learned a lot and got to understand the spot on with attractive people. I'll be a resort to visitor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-36602920293400024332012-05-07T05:55:25.160-05:002012-05-07T05:55:25.160-05:00Thank you exceptionally much for the improve forum...Thank you exceptionally much for the improve forum. I highbrow a lot and got to differentiate the lucid with captivating people. I'll be a resort to visitor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-55288960571746815632011-09-20T21:12:42.257-05:002011-09-20T21:12:42.257-05:00Communication is the key to every relationship, wi...Communication is the key to every relationship, without it they are doomed to fail. As for disputes, if you really care about that particular person you just have to adjust to them sometimes, the love that you have for the other person is more important than winning an argument.monterey foreclosureshttp://www.cacoastalhome.com/monterey-foreclosures.phpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-62926073180592073162009-01-29T09:41:00.000-05:002009-01-29T09:41:00.000-05:00Arguments can start over nothing,how many times ha...Arguments can start over nothing,how many times have you had an argument and then afterwards think back and you are not sure what started it or why,it just escalates so quickly!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-2185663886143724992008-03-31T10:49:00.000-05:002008-03-31T10:49:00.000-05:00this topic probably hard to discuss and get the re...this topic probably hard to discuss and get the result.it depends at the attitude of someone for sureAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-25392219786027874802007-07-05T20:34:00.000-05:002007-07-05T20:34:00.000-05:00Good to hear and not surprising SandeeGood to hear and not surprising SandeePeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-77194183649757972582007-07-05T19:34:00.000-05:002007-07-05T19:34:00.000-05:00My honey and I rarely have words about anything ne...My honey and I rarely have words about anything negative. You are right though. I liked your angle here.Sandeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06785788498697004273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-72184362512094623702007-07-04T21:23:00.000-05:002007-07-04T21:23:00.000-05:00Thank you Linda for adding to the conversation. Th...Thank you Linda for adding to the conversation. This is something I wish I had understood long agoPeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-82761998783712896772007-07-04T21:14:00.000-05:002007-07-04T21:14:00.000-05:00Stopped by via The Rising Blogger to say congratul...Stopped by via The Rising Blogger to say congratulations on your award. This is an excellent post and should be on every married couple's refrigerator in plain view. Well, take out the "married" part and just put in <I>every</I> couple's refrigerator!Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05698969349369789642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-24947153580178222302007-07-03T20:06:00.000-05:002007-07-03T20:06:00.000-05:00Thank you Bee appreciated and I am not surprised t...Thank you Bee appreciated and I am not surprised that you and sarge have a solid relationshipPeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-44344941170613466032007-07-03T19:08:00.000-05:002007-07-03T19:08:00.000-05:00oh! and congratulations on your award! well deserv...oh! and congratulations on your award! well deserved...<BR/><BR/>smiles, beeEmpress Bee (of the high sea)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08300140506585000934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-20646679253286678732007-07-03T19:07:00.000-05:002007-07-03T19:07:00.000-05:00i guess it depends on how mad i am! ha haseriously...i guess it depends on how mad i am! ha ha<BR/><BR/>seriously we don't argue. life is too short. we used to though, boy-o!<BR/><BR/>smiles, beeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-6566054713472406682007-07-03T18:54:00.000-05:002007-07-03T18:54:00.000-05:00Jennifer i can't as i am Canadian :)Jennifer i can't as i am Canadian :)Peter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-17145995102350806042007-07-03T18:53:00.000-05:002007-07-03T18:53:00.000-05:00good point about feeling Camillegood point about feeling CamillePeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-88644711247881933812007-07-03T16:05:00.000-05:002007-07-03T16:05:00.000-05:00Hi Peter....This is Jen from Goodness Graciousness...Hi Peter....<BR/><BR/>This is Jen from Goodness Graciousness! (smile)<BR/><BR/>All I can say is...<BR/><BR/>Would you please run for President?<BR/><BR/>LOL!<BR/><BR/>JJJennifer Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-68202355029114074552007-07-03T15:52:00.000-05:002007-07-03T15:52:00.000-05:00Telling the other person how you feel is generally...Telling the other person how you feel is generally a good place to start, if both parties already have a good reputation for taking responsibility for their own feelings and not the other person's. But if there is going to be some confusion that might lead to the misunderstanding that the person stating their feelings, whether they be happy or unhappy, then a discussion about that might need to happen first. For example... a wife tells her husband "I feel lousy (unhappy, sad, etc) when you don't do the things you say you are going to do." or a man says to his girlfriend/wife "It makes me feel that you don't trust me (therefore sad, disappointed, unhappy) when you ask repeatedly for something I've already said I would do." Telling the other person how you feel instead of stating "you make me feel" opens the door to more discussion that is without blame and with many avenues for possible resolution.<BR/><BR/>:) My two cents<BR/><BR/>CamilleS. Camillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12677965869844341756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-43500524912401843822007-07-03T15:13:00.000-05:002007-07-03T15:13:00.000-05:00Thank you akelamalu for letting me know I will che...Thank you akelamalu for letting me know I will check it out.Peter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-10812732218115462772007-07-03T15:12:00.000-05:002007-07-03T15:12:00.000-05:00Brad I have to admit that I still have a problem w...Brad I have to admit that I still have a problem with this. I have however found myself on several occassions stopping and reframing it by laughing about how seriously I was taking myself. Outside of home it is easier to do.Peter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-17391657343575569912007-07-03T15:10:00.000-05:002007-07-03T15:10:00.000-05:00Well Jennifer it is better than war :)But I do und...Well Jennifer it is better than war :)But I do understand your pointPeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-40109215307156181652007-07-03T05:19:00.000-05:002007-07-03T05:19:00.000-05:00I popped over from Rising Blogger to say congratu...I popped over from Rising Blogger to say congratulations on your award and read your winning post - I'm glad I did!<BR/><BR/>I agree with you totally.Akelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-67229200902642755222007-07-03T00:18:00.000-05:002007-07-03T00:18:00.000-05:00Talking about problems instead of the people with ...Talking about problems instead of the people with the problem? that would take practice.<BR/><BR/>A confrontation usually starts with the originator already holding an unstated ultimatum, that the opponent is expected to meet whether the ultimatum gets stated or not. That kind of unseen agenda would have to go.<BR/><BR/>By starting out in a position of power, the originator get to specify whether to accept the proposed solution, the originator determines who is right or wrong. If we start out together looking for an answer, we both have to be ready to accept something less than what we want in the solution. That can be rare, with more than one person involved.<BR/><BR/>How well did this work in your house?Brad K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18378344866487206569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3272071748941420694.post-63793090888764671382007-07-02T21:47:00.000-05:002007-07-02T21:47:00.000-05:00I think this is true, but to a point. I have issu...I think this is true, but to a point. I have issues with my husband sometimes because he always comes to me and tells me all the crap he does wrong, so he can get the "awww, it's okay mess" before I launch him.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16967496089674122353noreply@blogger.com